As a child, they criticized you; as an adult, they tell you to be more confident. As a child, they told you not to compare your eating and clothing with others; as an adult, if you don't compare, they say you're hopeless. When studying, they told you not to fall in love early; after graduation, they tell you to get married soon. Childhood demands strict honesty like Hai Rui; adulthood demands flexibility and cunning like Qin Hui.