“A person who values you will never put themselves in a situation that could lead to losing you.”

If someone values you, they won't pretend to be ignorant about obvious things. The first time they make a mistake is unintentional; the second time is a choice.
Whether someone loves you or not is all in the details.
If I tell you to do something and you do it, it becomes cheap. If I tell you to do it and you don't, I become very cheap.